Another Day

I told someone that I still felt married. She asked me if on the day I got married over 18 years ago, did I suddenly feel married? Well, no, it took awhile to feel married. So, she said, it will take awhile for me to feel not married. This friend's husband died about 15 years ago. And sometimes, she says, she still feels married.

I'm proud of myself today for handling a pile of paperwork. There's still more paperwork to do and file, but there always will be.
Today I handled what I could.